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Porn should be entertainment, not a second job.

Masturbation and pornography are not automatically a problem. Learn what gooning means, recognize when sexual behaviour is becoming difficult to control, and find practical, confidential help in Canada.

No sign-up. No quiz results. No personal information collected.

Internet language, accurate information.

People search for “gooning addiction.” We start with the words people actually use, then explain what the evidence and clinical terminology can—and cannot—tell you.

Read: What is gooning?

Clear answers. Connected next steps.

Start with the question that sounds most like yours. Each guide links to related information, practical actions and appropriate support.

What could a small change give back?

Time you choose for sexual pleasure is not automatically wasted. But if part of the routine no longer feels chosen, reducing it even slightly can create room for sleep, relationships, movement, learning, creative work—or simply doing nothing without a screen.

15 minutes a day

Each week
1 hr 45 min
Each year
91 hours

30 minutes a day

Each week
3.5 hours
Each year
183 hours

60 minutes a day

Each week
7 hours
Each year
365 hours

ONE EXAMPLE

Reclaiming 30 minutes a day adds up to nearly 23 eight-hour days each year—enough for two one-hour workouts and a 90-minute class every week, or simply more sleep and unhurried time with people you care about.

These figures are simple time calculations, not a prescription. Start with the amount of time you genuinely want back.

Choose a manageable first step

Focus on control and impact, not shame.

There is no online score that can diagnose you. These questions can help you decide whether it is time to make a change or speak with a professional.

01

Do you often spend more time than you planned?

02

Have you tried to cut back and found it difficult?

03

Is it affecting sleep, work, school, relationships, money, or your health?

04

Do you keep going even when you no longer want to?

If several answers are “yes,” or one issue is causing serious harm, consider reaching out. You do not need to wait until things get worse.

Use the full self-check

Three things you can do today.

You do not have to promise permanent abstinence. Start with a manageable step that gives you more choice.

  1. 01

    Make one small change

    Choose a stopping time, move devices out of the bedroom, or take a short break. The goal is to learn what helps you feel more in control.

  2. 02

    Notice the pattern

    Write down what happened just before the urge: stress, boredom, loneliness, anxiety, fatigue, or something else. Patterns can make the next step clearer.

  3. 03

    Tell someone you trust

    You do not need a perfect explanation. Try: “This is taking up more of my life than I want, and I could use some support.”

Build a seven-day first-step plan

Choose the kind of help that fits.

A family doctor, counsellor, or qualified sex therapist can help with compulsive behaviour, anxiety, relationships, physical concerns, and other issues that may be connected.

LOCAL SUPPORT

Call 2-1-1

Find free and confidential mental-health and community services near you, in more than 150 languages across most of Canada.

Visit 211 Canada

COUNSELLING

Find a counsellor

Search the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association directory by location, specialty, and availability.

Search the CCPA directory

SEX THERAPY

Find a sex therapist

Search the AASECT referral directory for certified sexuality counsellors and therapists, including providers in Canada.

Search the AASECT directory

PHYSICAL HEALTH

In pain or worried about an injury?

Stop the activity and contact a healthcare professional for persistent pain, bleeding, loss of sensation, skin injury, urinary symptoms, or any other physical concern.

See how to choose a provider

Asking for help is a practical step, not a confession.

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